Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and the Yahoo Answers website is now in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.
Trending News
Boy problems in high school?
I am a freshman in highschool and I have a little problem that includes two boys. One of them is a senior and he admits that he likes me a lot. I like him too but I don't really want to date a senior. Especially since he's going to be graduating and leaving. The other is a sophomore in my Spanish class and swim team. He always flirts with me and everyone says "You and her should date." he responds by smiling and then walking away. The senior and I started fighting because he wanted to go out with me but I said that I didn't want to because of the age difference and everything. The sophomore saw that I was upset and asked about the problem. I told him about it and then he freaked out at me. He asked me about the problem, then he yells at me for it! I asked him why was he mad and he just said that he didn't want to talk to me. Now both of them are mad at me. What do I do?
3 Answers
- ?Lv 77 years agoFavorite Answer
If you are telling the full story, all the details and your part in it, then based solely on what you posted YOU should do NOTHING. You didn't do anything wrong, based on what you wrote, but I have a feeling you are leaving out some details.
In regards to the senior boy, if he is going to get upset and bent out of shape because you aren't interested in going out with him, then you dodged a bullit with him in my opinion. A nice, smart and understanding boy/person would respect your decision and move on, not have a tantrum and try and make you feel bad. You said thank you, but no thank you and your reasoning is wise. He will be leaving soon and any relationship you do have would be very very short lived, because once he graduates he won't be coming back to a kid in high school even if he himself is still a kid.
The story about the second boy doesn't make sense as to why he would get upset? What else happened here? The second boy might be upset because he likes you and you were foolish enough to share a story about another boy who likes you with him, you shouldn't have done that.
Ultimately, you shouldn't waste your time with them anymore or at least the first guy and not the second boy until he apologizes for yelling at you.
- ?Lv 47 years ago
Well, the sophomore is probably upset to hear that there's another guy involved. He obviously likes you and you telling him that you were talking to someone crushed him.
- 7 years ago
aww! love triangle! which ever guy you like. be with him. HInt: Don't pick the senior. Chances are he can break your heart. Unless he is in really in love with you.