trying to find the name of this PS2 game?

it was years ago when I played this game so I can't remember the name what I do remember is that It's a strategy game it looks similar Kessen or destiny warriors but it as magic in it, your able to take control of one of your general commanding one of your army on the battle to fight the enemy your self but I don't think you have to.

you can pick from the start which side to play as the good or bad guy and it kind of clear who is who...I think at lest.

only other think I remember is that one of your main generals is a fat drunk who has 3 daughters and one of them is killed in the main mean cut scene.

I know this is not a lot of info but I appreciate any info you can give me.