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My boyfriend wants to take me on a vacation...BUT...?

he took his then girlfriend there when they were dating. It happens to be his vacation spot...but I kinda feel weird about it. Like I even saw some FB pictures on his profile...and this was like two years ago. Should I let it go and just agree to go? or...

Please help!!

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  • 7 years ago

    Look, why are girls so afraid to stand up for themselves? What is the worst that can happen if you communicate clearly? Why don't you just SAY: "Hey, I know this is a vacation spot you enjoy, but I would rather make fresh memories of our OWN at a NEW place that you have not been to before." Tell him: "I would like to go on vacation with you, just to a different place than this one." "Let me know what other ideas about where to go you might have." And then just shut up and let him decide where ELSE to go. If he asks why, just say the truth. The truth will set you free. And have fun.

  • 7 years ago

    Elle-let the past be the past....if you are secure enough to be around him and not think it will create issues between the 2 of you, go enjoy yourself!!

  • 7 years ago

    First, he needs to delete those photos. I wouldn't want to go because it may be on his mind while you guys are there but then he may just like relaxing there. If you aren't comfortable, don't go.

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