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I need some relationship advice?

Hello dearest forum dwellers.

I shall keep this simple and to the point, basically the short version. I met a girl that is just amazing we loved each other from the start and it has been going spectacular. Key words here are long distance relationship. ( not too long since it's only like 4 hours away )

POINT IS. It was working very well, but than we were supposed to meet in a couple of weeks. And she suddenly realized that it was going too fast for her and that she wasn't ready. And apparently still has feelings for me, but she is simultaneously confused about her's.

She did came out of a 5 year long relationship a few months before we started "dating". So my question here is. Feeling insecure, scared, pressured and suddenly going numb ( devoid of all feeling). Is that something that is authentic, because i have never seen such a thing transpire.

So if you would be kind enough as to assimilate this situation to me in words i am able to understand. Thank you for listening to this emotionally old man's rant. Should there be any further inquires, they are as always available upon request.

Good day dearest forum dweller,

Thank you for reading.

Update:

Yeah i was kind of afraid of that my self. Oh well thank you guys for clearing this out for me. Also Fakefufu, i see you are displeased with the way i talk. God forbid the occasional use of a more colorful word, i can see how it could darken your perception of reality.

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    If this is the way you talk to her in real life then no wonder you are turning her off. WHne someone says "it's going to fast" that's another way of saying, I'm not interested, but I'll keep you hanging on as my little toy until someone else comes along

  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Its not that it was going 2 fast as all online 'relationships' go, 99% of what was aid is a lie, othewise she would have jumped at the chance 2 mee u.

    Source(s): a female point of view
  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    This ebook might help you to understand what's wrong in your relationship and It also teaches what to do to try saving your marriage http://savemarriage.toptips.org/

    It helped me alot!

  • 7 years ago

    Give her time to think, don't rush her at all. Be patient. Maybe she really got hurt before. She is just being cautious.

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