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Question about a 10 yr relationship break up?

How can someone say,after ten years,that they just don't feel anything for you anymore,don't feel anything for anyone,leave,and be 'in love' with an ex 2 wks later? My ex and I broke up in July,and she swore that it wasn't anything I had done,or didn't do.She just didn't love me anymore,and couldn't feel anything for anyone...yet two weeks after she left,she'd moved in with an ex,and they were *totally* in love? We had a peaceful life together,and she complains to me about how much drama her now 'girlfriend' is.I never cheated on her,never so much as thought about being with anyone else. I treated her like gold...why would someone leave that?

Update:

I cooked for her,cleaned for her,rubbed her feet when she got home from work every day..tried to have a cold drink waiting,and listened to her kevetch about her day.

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    I feel you. Some things just dont work out the way it will seem to be. I am really sorry to hear about your story with your girlfriend. She probably just got bored and left. I mean , you shouldnt really think so much about it because if she's true to you, she wouldn't leave you. This just proves that there is definitely someone better in life who is meant for you :) cheer up

  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    your were two nice no backbone you give in two fast when your that nice two people you get ****** over sooner or later it just how life works that girl doesn't know what love is one day somebody will enjoy your time and care for all the nice things you did for her but that girl isnt for you everything happens for a reason learn from it

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