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I have a crush on my friend...?

I have a crush on my friend and I want to know how I can get him to notice me in "that" kind of way. Like as a girlfriend. I'm going on this retreat thing for three days in about a week and he is going too. How can I get him to like me there? I'm a sophomore and he's a senior and we're friends. Like not super close but semi-close... It's very hard to explain.

I always subtweet about him like "we are so perfect for each other" and "I can't get you off my mind" and he always favorites them. So I'm worried that he likes someone else. But then there's that smudge of hope that he just feels for me. Like "yeah, been there!" Or that he likes me.

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    It's a free country, and ultimately you have to be okay with yourself when the day is done. I say NO because it's just like stealing, lying, or taking something from someone you love. Here's the test: if you can honestly say that if the tables were turned that you'd be okay if someone you cared about crushed on your crush, then okay. If you know that you wouldn't appreciate it being done to you, then don't do to someone else. Even if your friend isn't someone you care a whole lot about, it could wind up biting you back later. Crushes come and go, but friends are precious. I've lost many by doing the wrong thing and if I could take it back I would. Today, I do better by my friends - but I'm still not perfect.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    TELL HIM! You must be honest and open but be prepared in case he says you should stay friends, dont get upset but at least try and see what happens. Dont worry about making a fool of yourself, we all do it and good luck.

  • 7 years ago

    i agree with guitarhero. i think u shuld just talk to him he might like u and just dont say anything. just dont set urself up to get hurt. beprepared to hear both if he just like u as a friend then just forget about him.gud luck hun

  • 7 years ago

    I would have an honest sit down with him

  • 7 years ago

    normaly a guy friend doesn't want anything more if he did hed told u b4 now

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