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Why did she stop?What do i do to get her back to her old ways?
Ok so my ex girlfriend wants me back. I've been with her for over two years, so obviously I'll give it a chance. She sent me a text asking me what is it that will make me come back to her. All I told her isto prove to me that you'll be honest, loyal and committed to me and that will show a lot to me. She sent me goodmorning texts, always asked me to call her, for me to leave her voicemails, always asking to hang out and come over. I've been sorta hard to get and I kinda was talking to other girls , but just to get her mad in a joking way. but there was no filtration involved. I kinds just did it to make her jealous so she could want me more and not take me for granted. A few weeks later... I'm getting attached to her and now she's being rude and disrespectful to me as I'm starting to show a little commitment to her. She's not asking for any phone calls or goodmorning texts. She's acting like I should be the one who should be making it up to her. I'm trying to avoid sounding desperate.
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- Anonymous7 years agoFavorite Answer
I think you deserve respect, we women want respect and so men should ask respect. In this case you are not the one that hurt her, so she should not be asking you to act like you are the one that has to make it up. If she wants you back she must show you love and respect. It's hateful when one is disrespectful in a relationship, it also tells something about a person and what any future with that person would be. Better not to ignore warning signs, when a person is disrespectful it's likely he or she will continue to be that way and even worse. You must see if she's really changed. If she has asked you to call her or to hang out with her, and you want to give her a second chance, then call her, and start again, be committed, but as long as she does the same with you. But don't make her jealous, this is not the way to make things work, as a girl I hate when a guy does this with me. Maybe that's the reason why she's acting as you are the one to have to make it up with her. Stop doing that, but don't ask less than a respectful and committed relationship from her. But if she's disrespectful to you when you are attached, then it means she's one of those people who take things for granted once they get what they want, I've been there, I wouldn't want anything to do. They may be picky people, never content. Wish you all the best, Merry Christmas.