i told a girl that i loved her and she said i love u to but but as friends for now what does that mean?

Picture a girl that you would, in NO way, ever ...ever consider to make love to; that's what she thinks of you.

The good news is you know you can move on. Because your feelings are so great for this girl, it means you will need space from her. Take the amount of time you typically spend with her and divide by 1 and that is how much less you need to spend with her. It will take a long time, depending on how entrenched your feelings are for her.

The more time you spend away from her the easier it will be for you to move on. Also, start involving yourself with different groups of friends or just people you know she doesn't hang out with. Start thinking about someone else. You may not feel like dating or being with anyone else, but just thinking about other people will help. You don't have to sleep with any of them, just hang out.

Think of it this way, now you can find that person who will love you back as much as you love them. I can guarantee - you find that person, and it will make this 'girl' as just a friend, if that.

oh, happy new years, dude.

You must be new to dating. Don't worry I'm not going to be mean about it, but I will describe what she means. It's something called the "Friend-Zone" and guys hate this zone. Pretty much, it means she likes you, but she doesn't wanna date you. I guess you could compare it to sibling love.

She only wants to be your friend, but thinks perhaps something may happen in the future. Take it from me that you don't want to even bother anymore... I was rude and kept putting my friend in the friend zone but also led him on at the same time. She may do the same to you. So get over her ASAP

It means that she loves you but dont want to get committed. May be she is mentally not ready for the relationship.

You've been friendzoned. It happens. My condolences for you brother.

Sorry, you've just been friend zoned