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My girl friend has been put down by a guy and now she's pretending to like women.?

My friend who's a woman... she's 20 years old and she's always said that she's never really liked a guy before throughout middle school and high school. So, at 19... she finally met a guy that moved from Illinois to Texas who she's really into (she's seen him at college).

She's made it to clear to her group of friends (I'm one of them) that this guy is someone she wants to be with.

So, she added him on Facebook and he was nice at first. But then he ended up telling her that she looks like a lesbian which crushed her.

And then, this guy, he's 23. The girl he's with is 29 and he leaves vulgar statuses about having sex with her and his girlfriend says very suggestive things over his public Facebook which has also upset my friend.

And now, because of what he said... she's pretending to be attracted to girls.

I feel terrible for her because this girl was so hyped about him. and since knowing her since she was 8... she's never really liked guys before. she's never been seriously attracted to one.

And before making a move on this guy. for 2 months, she would always talk about him and whether it's how beautiful his hair is or wanting to be able to cuddle with him...

at times, she even made sexual remarks on what she wants to do to him. then she's said they would have very attractive kids together.

And even though the comments she made are strange, this girl was so much happier before this guy made such a mean comment towards her.

She was so happy and now it's been 2 weeks and all the music she listens to is all very depressing songs about love not working out which is obviously about this guy yet she tries to act like she's attracted to women.

She's not even coming to school and I want to do something because she was doing fine before this guy came here !

I know it's not my place to do anything and I won't.

I feel like she's expecting this guy to apologize about the comment and make up with her. And leave the girl he's with...

She's just my friend and even a teacher has come up to me and is concerned that she's not coming to school. And it's just wrong that she's doing this to herself.

But this girl is so sweet and it just makes me mad this guy said something cruel to her and it makes me sad that no matter what I say or that her other friends say... she's beyond depressed.

And she wants to move back in with her parents (they live 2 hours away) and she said that rejection hurts and said that this guy was someone she wanted to be with and she feels very reminded of him by staying at this college and in this city.

Update:

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when she talked to this guy in person. he was very quick to hug her and kissed her on the forehead and told her her height is adorable cause she's only 5'0.

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  • 7 years ago

    Your friend is easily manipulated, and this guy manipulates her to the ninth degree. He said some stupid...really stupid....stuff, and she kinda believes it. So he faked her out, and got her manipulated to believe something false. She'll only come out of this....if he tells her otherwise, or she gets some wise and trusted soul (maybe not you) to tell of the facts of life. She needs to grasp manipulation and how you can be deceived into believing things.

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