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I feel so ashamed of myself. Is there anyway I can move on?

Long story short I had the worse day of my lıfe and got drunk next to my computer... Next thıng I know I flashed body parts to a random guy onlıne (he dıdn't know my name or locatıon and I dıdn't show my face the entıre tıme) I feel so sıck and gross. How do I forgıve myself and move on wıth my lıfe when I feel so guılty? (Also, I'm a vırgın.)

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  • David
    Lv 5
    7 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    It is done, in the past, it will only be in the past, but the problem is your past is in the present, which is why you are feeling so "not yourself". Forgive yourself, you didn't do anything bad really, the people who feel the most guilty in life are people who do nothing really in comparison to psychopaths who murder people without any guilt whatsoever. You are not like a murderer, so you should not be feeling any guilt when a murderer wouldn't. You will move on, grieve properly (yes, you don't just grieve for people who died, you grieve for things you have done too), forgive yourself and then move on, with the past in the past and enjoy the present, because you can't enjoy the present when you are thinking of the past or the future, or both at the same time. That is the secret to a happy life (as long as you don't use "living in the now" to use someone at your expense)

  • 7 years ago

    Everyone gets drunk it's not as if you are doing all day when sober , lord knows I have done some things when in drink , you need to move on put it behind you because what else can you do ? Seriously that's mild just at least you know you did something that made you uncomfortable so you know that you probably do t want to be doing it again x

  • 7 years ago

    I know it's really bad to feel guilty. if you can delete those pictures, do so and also delete it off your mind. try to make a resolution to never get drunk so that you don't fall into that situation again. if you're a Christian or believe in God, ask God to forgive you and give you peace. i'm sorry for what happened to you but forget and move on. don't make it hunt you the more okay ...take care :)

  • Hi
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Unfortunately we have all done things we regret, Thank goodness we can be forgiven by asking,but its never as easy to forgive ourselves.As long as we learn a lesson we can move on and know better next time

  • higgo
    Lv 4
    7 years ago

    Well you probably madehis day, and no one will ever know

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Why did you have to tell us you are a virgin? This sounds phony to me.

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