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Why does she do this?
Okay so me and this girl have known each other for a little more than a year now. We've been boyfriend and girlfriend for a little longer than three months. She even told me she doesn't want to text everyday or whatever, which is fine! I would get bored if we did that every day. So usually she'll text me first for a few days and stop for a couple days. When she texts me she's usually flirty and isn't very boring when texting me. She does text me most of the time. The reason I don't text her first mostly is because more than half the time she never answers back at all that day or if she does it's like hours later when I'm asleep or she just texts me and will take long to reply. She'll also stop texting randomly sometimes. If she didn't want to text she could just say she has to go, right lol? I've also asked her to hangout three times and each time she can't, but I always hangout when she asks. I just think it's kinda unfair to me since I never do it to her! Sorry it's long! Thanks!
4 Answers
- 7 years agoFavorite Answer
She seems like she may be trying to play hard to get in your relationship. Maybe you should try talking to her about how you feel like you've been treated unfairly, with the whole hanging out situation. Just say something like "Every time I ask you to hang out, you can't but every time you ask me I always come, so could you make more of an effort to hang out with me when I want to?" and maybe suggest an upcoming date. Honestly, I don't think that it has anything to do with you, but maybe this is how she talks to and treats everyone so don't stress. Good luck! :)
- 7 years ago
If there was anything I learned from being single and dating, it's that the phone/texting/calling "games" have to stop.
The phone works both ways. It shouldn't be anybody's "turn" to text or call. If she wants to text you, she will. If you want to text her, you should. Tell her you were thinking about her, or miss her, or a joke or something. Don't get annoying with it though, like every 30 minutes asking where she is or why she isn't returning the effort.
Sometimes you just have to make her miss you, too. You probably aren't giving each other that opportunity to miss each other enough to where you absolutely can't go without talking to her. You shouldn't have to text or call just because a certain amount of time has gone by. Keep each other updated, keep each other informed, see each other often.
- 7 years ago
This sounds like stuff you would hear if you were not in a relationship and she was playing hard to get. But since you are bf and gf, she really needs to stop with the game playing. You should feel at ease to call or text her since she is your GF! I would talk to her about it though.
- 7 years ago
Its okay the whole texting thing she doesn't know and she might not see it but I personally would like to see why she can never hang out with you it does seem unfair and maybe Shea hiding something hey idk I just think ask her why she can't next time
