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Should i break up with her for lying?

Iv'e been dating this girl for a little over a year, and it was amazing at first, But then it all turned bad. You see, i wanted to keep this girl so i decided to tell her a secret of mine about two months into the relationship. I told her because i knew it would not last another month if i didn't. it would make everything horrible trust me. So she said she believed me, and then i told her all about it, so many things, that now i wish i would've just kept to myself, and not have even dated to begin with. She always said she believed what i said, but i wanted the god's honest truth. I texted her and said "look i need to know if you believe me when i tell you (my secret) i need to know" She replied a simple no. the conversation carried on a bit after. She kept it from me from the beginning, and all that i told her was just a waste of breath. My secret understandably sounds fake, but i even showed her, well to an extent, not the full thing out of fear of her thinking i'm some monster. She also cheated on me, maybe more than i know i just overheard a conversation. Relationships are supposed to be about trust, and i don't feel a spark like i used to, i don't feel as attracted, and in the same day i found out that she lied to me for a year and cheated on me, so based on this information what do you think, leave her or stay, i still love her, but....I just don't feel it now that this has happened. I'm sorry for the lack of information, but i hope you understand.

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    Lv 4
    7 years ago
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    i know you love her but you need to leave her if she's cheating on you she doesn't love you and you deserve way better than that. there is someone out there that will treat you with respect and care about you. leave her!

  • 7 years ago

    All you needed to say is that she cheated and lied. If she did those things to hurt you she must not really love you. You should leave and find someone who appreciates you and actually cares about your feelings.

  • 7 years ago

    Its not fun to be cheated on, and I dont think she deserves you. You should break up.

  • 7 years ago

    Dump her..

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