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Does this girl like me? She wants to be my pretend girlfriend?
I have been talking to this girl for 6 months now and we have gotten to know a lot about each other. She's in a sorority and I'm in a fraternity, so one day at a party we had conversation and she said that it would help if she was my pretend girlfriend because it will help me in adulthood (I'm 19 yrs old). She also said that she was just curious as to how I treat her as my girlfriend.
Is this a trap? Does she like me?
3 Answers
- Anonymous7 years ago
She likes you. It's a trick to get you to like her
Source(s): I'm a girl - Anonymous7 years ago
She wants to use you to make another guy jealous. DON'T FALL FOR IT!
- ?Lv 77 years ago
She is messing with you, so do NOT take her seriously.
You are only going to use her for your own entertainment. Do I make myself clear? You will put no emotion into this at all.
Call her and say that her suggestion of being a 'pretend' girlfriend was stupid, but if she wants to go on a real date, you want to take her out for bowling & a burger on X-day evening at <exact time.> Then ask "Can you make it?" Shut up and let her answer.
Make it for 2-3 days ahead. If she is interested, she will accept the date or counter-offer an exact day she is free. ANY other answer means "No" and she doesn't want to date you.
You are going to play this cool like a bad boy who doesn't care if she wants to go or not, because you have lots of other babes lined up that you can have fun with.
If you act in ANY way like you are serious about her or want to make her happy, she will be completely turned off. This is why girls go after the bad boys. It's because the bad boys have other things going on in their lives and keep busy. The girls want to be a part of that guy's world because he is having fun with or without her. The bad boy's time has value.
You should not act like a jerk or say anything negative. But your attitude will be "I'm going out to have a fun time. You can join me if you want, but I'm still going to have fun if you don't join me." That makes you look valuable to her.
None of her stupid 'pretend' boyfriend crap. If you agree to that, then she is in COMPLETE control. And you do not want a woman to be in control of a relationship.