Need advice about boyfriend.....?

You don't trust this guy and yet you want to be married to him? that is weird. Also when two guys get married, why would only one have a bachelor party? Looks like you both would go to it.

If you can't trust him without you being present, how do you expect he'll handle himself in marriage? If he's your fiance, he should be fully committed to you. A bachelor party is not an excuse to be unfaithful, but to have fun and to put a humorous twist on the celebration of being married. It should all be taken in jest, and it's a good practice of trust between the two of you.

If you aren't comfortable with it, ask yourself why. Do you have feelings of jealousy? Do you think he can't be trusted?

Sit down and talk it out with him. Tell him your worries and see what he says. Really make sure he knows you don't want your concern to be blown off.

Ask him how he would feel if *you* were having a party with strippers, and if he would be uncomfortable. Then listen to his answer! If he says, "No, I would trust you to have fun but do the right thing." then you should really be feeling the same way about him at this point, don't you think?

Trust is a two-way street, and if some aspect of that is lacking, you should really communicate about it!

Hopefully you'll re-think the "Yes" if you accepted a proposal.

Should have tried this