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Will my fiancé be able to get pregnant?

Me and my fiancé have been trying to get pregnant for a while now and she was sexually molested my her step father at a young age for a long time. She has had a few miscarriages already is there any possibility of us having a baby? Did he ruin her ability to have children?

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    Lv 7
    7 years ago
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    Honey, as a child myself, I was molested by my own father, and it really took me a long time to heal, when I met my husband, we talked about what happened before we got married, and he really helped me through all of the anger and the pain, and me feeling like I was not beautiful and attractive to him, the more we talked and the more he showed his love for me, I finally ended up trusting again, and we got married, and we had a beautiful baby girl :-)

    So, if your wife still has issues, I suggest she see a counselor to help her with her feelings and to give her the tools to deal with the past and move on with the future, so she can relax, and put the past where it belongs, in the past and move on with you and the future, once she does that, she will be able to relax, and feel more comfortable with her own body and herself and be more ready to have a family with you.

    G♥♥d luck :-)

    (((hugs)))♥♥♥

    Source(s): My own experience.
  • 7 years ago

    If she has had 3 or more miscarriages then they usually investigate into what is causing the miscarriages, does not always come up with an answer, but many times it does.

    You have both been trying to conceive for awhile now. It can take a healthy couple 6-12 months of actively trying before finally conceiving. Sometimes it can take couples up to 5 years before they have success. Other times, couples need fertility advice and/or assistance.

    I am sorry for what happened to your fiancé, but no one can tell you if there was any damage done from her assaults.

    She just needs to know her cycle, know when she ovulates, have sex in the 4 days leading up to her ovulation day, on her ovulation day and the day after her ovulation day. Somewhere mid way between periods, give or take some days.

    There are ovulation predictor kits available to try and pinpoint when she ovulates.

    OR

    Have sex every 2nd day from the end of her period right up to the day her next period is due. This allows sperm to be constantly present for when she ovulates and without needing to know an exact ovulation day.

    If no success after trying every month for 12 months, it is then advised for both of the couple to seek fertility advice/assistance.

    Good Luck.

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