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Pregnant and the guy is ignoring me.?
I was dating this guy and found out he was seeing someone else at the same time. I broke up with him and found out a week later I am pregnant. I told him and he has avoided me since. I don't want to be with him especially after he was so dishonest I see now I despise him. He's still seeing the other woman. She knows he was seeing me but I'm positive he hasn't told her I am pregnant. I am trying to forget about him and not contact him but It just makes me so angry even though I don't like him or want to be with him it would be nice to have some support you know? So my question is how do I deal with this anger and not write him a nasty email and flip out. I've been holding it in and it is growing. Should I write to his GF too? The only reason I would do that would be to start trouble for him so I don't think I should do that but I don't think he should be able to be happy right now and he should step up to the plate. Any advice would be nice. Thanks.
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- Anonymous7 years agoFavorite Answer
Just because he doesn't want that kid doesn't mean he isn't going to have to pay for it. So just make sure you know how to find him (for legal reasons) several months from now. You'll need his home and/or employer address to submit to the court after the baby is born. That way he can be served the summons so he'll know he has to have his DNA tested and go to court. That's what you'll have to do to ensure you get child support for the baby you and he made.
So don't talk to him. Don't talk to his girlfriend. Just imagine the look on his face when a sheriffs deputy delivers those court papers. It's actually a subpeona. So he has to comply or he'll be held in contempt if court and arrested. So just because he's dodging his responsibility now doesn't mean he's getting away with anything.
And if you do contact him, try to keep it civil. Like emails only once a week regarding your desire to discuss the child that's going to be arriving soon. His child.
Source(s): Try not to get the current girlfriend involved. Remember, she probably has no idea what he's like, either. So he's probably making you out to be crazy or a stalker. And of course he'll say the baby isn't his. Because he's a jerk. So just try to stay calm. Know that at least you'll get child support for financial help. - Anonymous7 years ago
with you being pregnant now your best to stay calm and not get yourself stressed over someone who isnt worth it, dont even give him the satisfaction he obviously isn't mature enough to step up to his responsibility's after getting you pregnant, dont waste your time and energy and look after your self, you have someone more important to think about now :)
- ?Lv 47 years ago
No leave him amd his girlfriend alone amd concentrate on whats best for you and baby.
Churn that anger your holding into something positive for yourself and baby.
- Anonymous7 years ago
I was in this same situation ten years ago... I basically decided to concentrate on the baby and forget about the "sperm donor." he will never grow up and you really wont feel any better once you have lashed out at him. Best of luck and remember that you have the best lil part of him growing inside of you.
