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I want to have sex with my girlfriend but I don't want to wait for marriage?
Me and my girlfriend have been dating for two years. She's 17 and I'm 18. She told me she wants to wait for marriage but I know she wants to have sex. It's like breaking a rule to her. And I totally understand and respect her decision but we both really want to. So what do I do? I truly don't mind waiting til marriage but I know it won't last til marriage. Is there something specific I can say or do to her? We do everything else but have sex? I just don't want to ruin our relations
4 Answers
- Anonymous7 years ago
In the mean time while you're waiting to have sex with her until marriage, go out there and f*ck another or other females. She want to wait until marriage so you shall wait until marriage with her. It doesn't mean that you should suppress your sexual desires. She don't want to have sex now, but you do so go do it. That isn't breaking her rule because you're not having sex with her as she requested. You shouldn't have to suffer if you want to be with her. It doesn't make you not love her any less, but you have needs and sex plays a big part in a relationship. It isn't the main focus but it plays an important role. And to those who think I am joking, I'm not. It's just something that females have to deal with since they want to wait til marriage. Especially if she has already been sexually active before you. That's a given that you have sex with other females since it is you that she don't want sex from right now.
- Anonymous7 years ago
Honestly just stick with her wish of waiting until marriage. I agree with that rule but that's not why I'm saying that you should still go with it. Of course she wants to do it because of hormones and your relationship in general. But especially if you don't think it will last don't do it. If you do it and it ends up being a decision that you or her regret it could hurt your relationship. And if you were to eventually break up it could make it harder for you guys to still see each other in a positive light. Good luck!
Answer my question maybe?
- Anonymous7 years ago
If you truly care then there's no reason to ask this.
Of course she wants to have sex. Hormones and urges are a *****. Doesn't mean she truly doesn't want to wait. What is more likely is she'll accidentally give in, you'll be more than happy to accept, and then after she'll have guilt with herself for not sticking to something she put value in.
If she wants to wait then she does. You can be a better boyfriend by helping her stick to it. So if she does seem overly turned on, then tone it down or look out for her. That's what being her partner is about.