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How can I ask a girl out?
I am 14 and well never had a girlfriend and am very shy about trying to ask a girl out and it seems like I do all the kids in my grade will make fun of me also we have know each other since kindergarten and have texted and snap chatted each other a lot and have become ok friends but I am just nervous of the outcome and getting made fun of please help
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- 6 years agoFavorite Answer
get to know her. if you approach her and introduce yourself it automatically gives it away that you like her. you wanna NOT lead her on as much as possible. you dont wanna be known as that awkward and shallow kid when she declines a conversation with you. try to spew up a convo in class because it's one of those convos where it just flows and you dont have to think about everything you say and it makes you seem less desperate. next, after talking to her for the first time just end it with "see you around". dont ask for a number or any social media. the next day you see her talk to her again and try to refresh instead of picking up from last time. then ask her for her number. text her occasionally because you dont wanna build the habit of texting her too much. be sure to text her first only a few times. and try to end the text convo with a "gtg see you in school". after texting her but mainly spending time with her in person, you guys will both begin to get emotions. dont see it as the only reason youre talking is to get with her. because when you get with her you feel an accomplishment? its supposed to be a feeling of joy. see it as if she was just a friend. eventually after about 2-3 weeks of straight up talking, hanging out, texting, maybe a few phone calls ask her to hang out when the time is right for you. when youve felt that its been enough conceiving your feelings, ask her to hang out. go to like a burger king or somewhere to eat. at this point you guys are so comfortable with each other and are like best friends. after you guys eat, DONT DO IT WHILE SHES EATING, start to slowly unfold. heres a scenario that worked for me with my first girlfriend:
me: so like have you ever had a boyfriend?
her: no but i want to find the right guy
me: (name), i really wanna let you know i love being with you. everytime we hang out its the best and i wanted to know if you feel the same
her: yeah i love hanging out with you
me: i also want to be with you. i have feelings for you. do you feel the same way?
her: well ive held it in. i like you too
happily ever after yay! but that scenario can be much different. it can be more physical like maybe a kiss while you guys might be sitting somewhere. you just need to start with square one: show her its only a friendship youre looking for unless she makes a move on you. if its too soon dont give in just because you are physically attracted her. good luck
- 6 years ago
I say you should go for it. If she is often caught staring at you or acts close to you when you're around, or ends up being in the same places at you often, then she probably is in to you! Be sweet about it. If you went up and asked her, people would think you're brave. Or you could ask to talk to her alone and do it that way. Then no one would know if you asked her or not.