How to stop being "sweet"? it seems "sweet only gets me in the frienzone?

Be yourself. I am not saying that to be a sappy oh everyone's great kind of thing. My reasoning is because if you are yourself, someone who falls for you will want you for you. If you pretend to be a meaner or more serious person, you won't be acting your true self, and you will fall in love with the wrong person.

And because you're a nice guy you can't throw her up against a wall and kiss the hell out of her? Just let them know there's an assertive side to you as well...obviously there is "**** the sweetness." Just let it show, because most women don't want a nice guy in bed.

I'm the same way. where I live, the only guys that get a good relationship are the **** holes, the jerks, and the idiots. The smart, nice, and sweet guys, like me, get nothing, and even when I do, they leave me for someone who treats them poorly. So I feel ya, but just be yourself, it'll all work out one day

Maybe you're getting friendzoned because you're courting the wrong people.

Be sweet but be confident and flirtatious.

change your personality but be sweet