Why are women deceptive? they tell the guy what they think he needs to know and keep the rest of the truth to themselves. Why?

I am a woman and I am not deceptive. I won't tell you what you want to hear but I also may choose not to tell you what you cannot handle. If you ask me straight up I won't lie but I won't volunteer information based on how you reacted to the subject in the past.

For instance...I like a guy who had a hard time believing that I wasn't responding to a bunch of guys who were hitting on me. He accused me of talking to them when he was there. I would not do that. Its disrespectful. If we we in a committed relationship I would not talk to guys AT ALL. That too is disrespectful and my relationships are all about respect.

So, if a guy hit on me at the store I would tell him I am in a relationship and move on. I'm not flattered by the attention but I would not tell the guy I like what happened at the store because it would be irrelevant since I handled it myself. I don't want him to worry that I couldn't shut a man down in the future

Listen mate. Man needs to have the skills, experience and knowledge to not act beta, and realise women are emotional - and understand why they do things INSTEAD of creating labels. The judging only defines you not women or anyone else.

It defines how you lack knowledge, experience, masculinity.

Instead of labelling them as deceptive, understand woman psychology.

Come from a stronger position than a weak bitter negative position. You'll find they are not being really deceptive but they got a lot to lose, if they tell everything about themselves. Until she meets that man, who she decides, later on "he's the one" it ain't going to happen.

See this as you need to invest more time in learning, gaining more experience and then you turn what you think is bad as a positive experience which can help you and the women you meet, and date.

So don't put too much expectations on woman too soon when dating. Don't believe everything a woman says but believe how she behaves with you.

Because if we start judging, well....

When non Muslims like you ask these type of questions, they only state Suras of Jihad and war as their proof. Have you ever opened a Koran and actually read it, huh? I doubt that? Almost all of the Koran says that Allah is merciful and Raheem. As for the violence in Islam, you better read the Prophet Muhammad's ( Peace be Upon Him ) life. There thousands of situations he lived through which shows the enormous amount of mercy Islam gives. One example is in the opening of Mecca. Before the opening of Mecca, Kuraysh ( the non believers) tortured Muslims, killed women and children, and fought wars with other tribes against Islam. This continued for almost ten years. Now if any human being was in his place, eh would most certainly seek revenge against Kuraysh. But when Islam became a little more powerful, Prophet Muhammad decided to open Mecca. At that time, he had become more powerful than Quraysh and when he entered Mecca, all of Quraysh thought that they were going to be killed instantly by Muhammad after they had tortured him and the Muslims for many years. But that did not happen. Do you know what Muhammad said? He said " Whoever What do you think I will do with all of you? Do you think that I will kill you?" Then he said " All of you can go, for you are free. " At that moment all of Quraysh immediately converted to Islam, not under force ( after all Muhammad had freed them ), but because of the enormous mercy of the wonderful Islam. This story is just a small speck of the stories that show what a merciful and great religion Islam is.

But you just confessed to not telling the guy the whole truth.

You control the gates of info.

I accept you are a keeper but seems to me a real keeper divulges the whole truth.

Good decent men don't "hit on" women.

Based upon my observations, seems to me most women are all paranoid about getting hit on. I don't do that, never did, never will.

Chivalry is not dead, there are good men out there. I do not like being judged by people's prejudices, I didn't earn that.