Which is better PS4 or Xbox One?

PS4: Pros:

better specs

cheaper membership that gives better deals and free games

SharePlay

apps are free no membership required

cross game chat is free

better track record of reliable hardware

better track record of picking up a lot of really good exclusive

longer DVR recording

faster game installs

Cons: Online not as good of Xbox Live

XB1:Pros:

better online

Kinect

slightly better media center

MS is really good at timed COD DLC

XB1:

Cons:

less powerful

more expensive membership

ads on the dashboard

not that good of a track record of reliable hardware rrod

locked out of apps and cross game chat if u don't have a membership

I would go PS4 more bang for your buck

price wise xbox one is cheaper except for xbox live. ps4 costs $400 but ps live is 50 a year xbox live is I think 60 a year. both obviously have defects take care of your console pretty much it should be fine but many gamers abuse them by running them too long and overheating them.

at this point it's either you are going to play with your friends on the ps4 constantly or simply buy a xbox. in all honesty idk anyone who plays video games with their friends all the time. I am a pc gamer even my friends take breaks for the games we play and so do I so at one point your friends playing ps4 will stop. so really simply pick the one you like. there are only 3 things you should look at.

1. price

2. exclusives ( why even bother getting a console imo if not for exclusives these are a HUGE thing in console gaming )

3. friends ( like I said they won't always be playing the ps4 so you really shouldn't base a judgement on that imo )

Flip a coin if you don't care about the most important choices when choosing a console.

Exclusives should be #1 but since you don't care then flip a coin.

Graphics is important but you don't care so flip a coin.

Download speed, that's beyond the consoles control. That's up to your internet service.

Online isn't free. Xbl costs 60 a year. Psn costs 50 a year. So ps4 gets this one but that shouldn't matter since the fees are close.

Lobby - that depends on the game. I did like home on psn before it was removed. It was a fun little place to play arcade games.

What system has the game library you would actually play? As thats all that matters