Im a guy who met a hot female who just see me as an associate(she made it clear),cause she just broke up with her boyfriend of 6 years.?

you can pretty much always avoid rejection because what men don't understand is that women have fairly high sex drive as in the way men want to have sex it's very similar for women

do not be mistaken about how women are always labeled as kind of shy and quiet and where a man is expected to initiate a relationship it's just not like that so for the future I would recommend being less aggressive and if you sit back rather than be upfront about what you want to all woman you'll be able to weed out all the rejections and then when a woman comes along that is interested you can be sure that she'll be saying or doing something to make her feelings very clear

I too broke up with my BF of 6 years.

There WILL come a time when not being able to have regular sex takes toll on her. Wait for that breaking point to crack in.