Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and the Yahoo Answers website is now in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

?
Lv 4
? asked in Entertainment & MusicPolls & Surveys · 5 years ago

poll: Would you ever take an ex back?

We've started to talk again

We broke up a few years ago after two weeks together. He hit me up randomly this past year wanting to try us again but the entire time something shady was up....

In august he hit me up wanting to be friends then we were going to try to start a relationship. The entire time he was still seeing Cara his gf of 3 years. She went psycho.

Yesterday he messaged me apolozing wanting to be friends. We ran into each other a week ago ago at the store and he said he cant stop thinking about me

7 Answers

Relevance
  • Bob B
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    Possibly, depending on the circumstances of why we broke up and if I thought something was still there. However, I'd generally be wary of it- usually it ends for a reason and most of the time it's a good one, so generally if it didn't work out, I'd usually stay away. I'd only restart it if there was an equally good reason.

    In the situation you're describing, I'd probably think twice. First, you broke up after only 2 weeks. For one, that's not much of a relationship, and then a lot of what you're dsecribing seems pretty weird and shady on his part. I don't think he's going to be anything but trouble, really.

  • 5 years ago

    I would only take them back for good intentions. Like if everybody I'm meeting is not for me, and my ex was the person that I fell the most in love with, and I felt like there was nobody else there for me, I would take my ex back. :-)

  • cc
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    I would run from this guy...but no, never took an ex back...they are ex for a reason.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    No. If it didn't work out before it never will. Especially if they cheated before, beat you or emotionally abused you, lied and kept secrets, had addictions or money problems or no goals or if they didn't share your values. They will never change. Trying again will only waste your time and theirs.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    5 years ago

    Yes, and I've done in solo many times too even after being cheated on..Sigh..

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    No.

    As much as I loved him,

    when he cheated on me that destroyed all trust and any chance of a decent relationship.

  • 5 years ago

    No.

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.