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People always say "worry about girls after college." Just a 19 year old college kid and I don't want to wait, but it's hard to meet girls?

Update:

I want to experience young love. I DO NOT feel like waiting until I'm like 23. The town where I go to college is FILLED with attractive girls, but I get intimidated because many parents of these girls are scientists, doctors, etc. NOT ALL, but there's a pretty high percentage and the town is relatively small. My college is also super small and 99.99% of the time, people are with their own groups at a table just hanging out. I don't know how to really meet these girls.

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  • 5 years ago

    You should have the best days in college. I am a senior in highs school and I just want to get to college so I could meet girls and also do my studying which is the most important. Still college should be fun so finding a girl that you like can make your college experience great. Go out and have fun so don't let people get in your way. Make college the best years of your life man so go after girls if you want.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    Did you know there are plenty of scientists and doctors who are un-loving, abusers, drug users and alcoholics?

    Don't put yourself below ANYONE on the social scale. The girls are all just looking for a stable guy who is fun, confident and makes her laugh. If there is a coffee shop and a bowling alley in your city, you are good to go! Ask any girl out for coffee, lunch or bowling & burgers.

    Sure, you will make mistakes along the way. After each date, replay it in your head and ask yourself what you would do differently if you set up the same date with a new girl tomorrow. Were there any red flags in her behavior? When you analyze the date later, you learn how to make the next date better. It's an ongoing process that lasts well into a marriage.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Go out with a group of friends or a friend. It's maybe easier to find someone in a more free atmosphere than university halls are. Go on a pub night and keep your eyes open, many ladies also go out with their girls to enjoy free evenings and meet new people. That's how I met my boyfriend :) Also at the 19.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    Those who say that are being sensible. You need commitment for college and for a serious girlfriend. That does not mean you cannot have any female company; just do not get serious

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