I'm SCARED. I'm sitting next to a cute girl in the lounge at my college.?

Most people will tell you to leave her alone and it would be the easier thing to do... BUT have you ever noticed that PLAYERS step in and start working with nothing but A SMILE. Follow that with a Compliment and MAYBE a Joke. Once you get a person "Smiling" a major part of the battle is done and CAN BE in your favor.

This takes Practice and A Little Bit of Guts.

BECOMING POPULAR, BUILDING SELF CONFIDENCE

both REQUIRE PRACTICE.

PRACTICE is just a way to LEARN to get better.

(High School / College / New Town / New Job)

Most guys, who care WAY TOO MUCH, usually project or

develop insecurities in themselves.

This does not Impress or Capture Women's Interest or Attention.

The key to Breaking the Ice with ANYONE, is in the ability to make People Smile and Enjoy your company.

Always use Smiles, Humor and Compliments to approach people.

USE SMILES (to make them relax),

USE HUMOR (to make them Smile or Laugh),

USE COMPLIMENTS (to make them feel good about themselves

when they are around you)

Wouldn't you want to be around someone

that made you feel good about yourself?

All this may sound scary to you,

but aren't you already scared anyway…

And probably sick of being YOU. (the way you are)

CHANGE will Always be uncomfortable…

until it becomes the way you do things.

Practice is about FAILING, until You Get Better.

DO NOT be afraid to Practice.

Practice and try this out:

Start by NOT making a big deal out of it. You'll only worry yourself.

SMILE at all the girls. "ALL" THE GIRLS.

Not just the ones that appeal to you.

This is PRACTICE… NOT Let's Find a GIRLFRIEND / BRIDE.

Say "Hi" to some or as many as possible. Don't pick and choose who you say "Hi" too, because some of them have other friends

that you will like and they could do the introductions

for you at some point.

Just like Sports... PRACTICE being popular.

Practice is the start to most things.

Keep in mind and REMEMBER--Handsome, Beautiful or Butt Ugly

has "NOTHING" to do with PRACTICE.

Smile. Say "Hi". Tell them your name, ask them theirs, compliment them on something you like about Them, BEFORE you let them say their name.

IT PLAYS OUT LIKE THIS:

You introduce yourself and compliment (the stranger) right away without letting them say their name. In case They were considering rejecting you, They now have a smile on Their face because of the compliment.

You just need to keep it there.

Then say... "I'm sorry, what was your name?" while still smiling.

One of the weakest qualities guys have with women is, the ability to hold a conversation. The secret to a conversation is asking a fun and simple question that a girl would enjoy answering.

Example: "I like your fingernail color. What color is that?" She says: "Ocean Spray Blue." You reply: "I knew you were going to do that. As a guy I would have said "a light shade of blue", but women always 'detail' their colors. Do girls get 'special training" on colors or what?" She'll giggle and give you an answer.

Ask her to name another color or Why is it girls do that?

Now you have her in a conversation.

She is enjoying a guy, enjoying her company.

Learn to Joke with people. It shows a sense of humor as they smile in your company. Example: "In my economics class I learned that TIME IS MONEY. Would you like to spend some with me?"

If She ask "Time or Money?" You SMILE and say. "YES."

PRACTICE this over and over. It's only scary the first 3 or 4 times.

Be nice and conversational to ALL the girls. Even plain girls have feelings and attractive friends, neighbors or cousins.

Be Respectful, you'll be remembered better.

Develop Popularity And The Girl You Are Looking For

Will Probably Find You.

If you don't start PRACTICING this now, you will lose out on many other opportunities (girls) in the future. The Players call it "Having Game."

REMEMBER--Handsome, Beautiful or Butt Ugly

has "NOTHING" to do with PRACTICE.

Because it's only practice...

it doesn't matter if you strike out over and over again.

Also, if you get rejected 100,000 times.

There is still a BILLION girls you haven't met... YET!!!!!

and Vice Versa, girls that haven't met You... YET!!!!!

She's got headphones in and is actively studying. She's made zero effort to speak with you. You sat next to her (not the other way around) and she's clearly wrapped up in work. You know NOTHING about what she's studying and therefor have nothing to talk to her about. Leave the poor woman alone and learn to read a situation.