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What would you do in this situation?

I tried to break up with my girlfriend last night. It wasn t that I didn t love her or care, but I m not ready for a relationship right now and didn t want it to progress. She has a lot of problems. She s clingy and she has bpd, and she gets upset easily. When I broke up with her, I was nice about it but she was crushed. She said she didn t want to live anymore and begged me to just tell her I loved her. I haven t heard from her in a while and I m worried. I m wondering if I should just lie and tell her I do. What do you think? What can I do?

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago
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    I think you need to be honest with her. She doesn't think she can take it but that is not your problem. It is necessary for BOTH people to be happy in a relationship or it just won't work.

    Lying will only prolong her pain and keep you on the hook.

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