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Would you date a much older man? Why or why not?

OK if you were 28 and met a 58 man who has his life together and seem to be really into you and nobody else, makes you laugh, very affectionate, understanding and not with the games... Would you date him or is that too old?

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  • 5 years ago

    Well... I wouldn't personally, because I'm a heterosexual male and I find other men completely revolting, even though some of them are my friends...

    But if I were not... look, I think a younger woman can date a guy that age if they like. I wouldn't raise an eyebrow, but maybe some people would. I think that if someone just wants to explore that, then go for it. But I would think very carefully before getting into anything serious with someone when there is such a huge age gap. You would have to consider what you want for your future.

    So, in summary... Date? Sure. If he's a good guy, then the worst that could happen is that you discover that you're not into old people. Serious stuff? Not completely out of the question, but requires some very serious consideration. Imagine your 10 year old child having a 70 year old dad... who knows, he could be very fit at 70...

  • Paulh
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    Age is but a number, keep in mind that someone much older than you is likely to have health issues, (stress, heart problems, diabetes, obesity, the big C, etc that occur with aging. There is also a fine chance he may up and die on you. Then again he could live to be 90 (and you will be 60 feeding him through a straw and taking care of his toilet functions. I am 53 by the way and know of several people in their 50's who have kicked this mortal coil prematurely.

    If you just want to date him fine, but there are also hidden risks you need to be aware of.

  • 5 years ago

    Not, unless I didn't mind the waiter asking MY DAD, if he needed a drink!

    Or asking my husband, 'your daughter', each time we are in public.

    If he's a millionaire, and owns a yacht, somewhere in the South of France, maybe. Think Jackie O. But seriously, NO! I'm not desperate, I'd rather marry or date someone younger than ME, 20-30 years younger.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    5 years ago

    Why worry about what others think? If it feels right to you, go for it. It's not the "norm," but so what? Chronological age is a number; age is really in your head. If he's not just trying to bed you and nothing more, go where the relationship takes you.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    too old, when you be 40 he will be 70.

    and then what ? find a lover ?

    really, im not saying he is not a good person, but if you will get married.

    let say, next year.

    you son will be 14 and he will be 73.

    how does it sound now ?

  • 5 years ago

    If I was female... definitely not. Way too old. Wouldn't want a c**k that needs medicinal help to erect.

  • 5 years ago

    Hmm...if he has that personality, why isnt he already married?. Something must be wrong with him, i always see these kind of realtionships ON TV. Whats that show called??...Who the hell did i marry?...i think?

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    No because I'm straight

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    d

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