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Losing my virginity to a stranger because I have low self esteem?

I'm a 19 year old girl and still a virgin. I have really low self esteem and I always feel ugly and worthless. Sometimes when I'm alone, I just cry to myself, I'm just so unhappy with who I am. I've never had a boyfriend, no guy has ever liked me. I never get check out by guys. Guys never tell me I'm pretty. Whenever I see pretty girls, I get really depressed and it ruins my day. My sister is so much prettier than me and always gets checked out by guys and it makes me feel like killing myself :(

I don't have any friends either. For once in my life I just want to feel wanted and attractive, even if it is just for a night. You know, to prove to myself that I am actually "f*ckable" and not one of those girls that guys "wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pool". Maybe losing my virginity to a stranger will make me feel beautiful because he chose to f^ck me out of everyone. What do you think about this???

This is a serious question. all stupid answers will get reported.

Update:

10 foot pole* not pool lol

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  • Anonymous
    4 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    You're probably a beautiful girl you just can't see it because you have gotten into a habit of hating yourself . You wouldn't check someone out when they're looking at you would you ? Guys probably do check you out when you're not looking . Don't lose your Virginity to a using stranger , you'll just feel worse . Find a guy who loves you for you he's out there somewhere , every person has a match in the world somewhere you just have to look for him until finally you do , and who needs friends anyway I don't have many . Id say I'm quite shy and it's hard for me to make friends quickly like other people , I have two best friends and a sister who's like a best friend and that's all . I think you need councelling because no one should feel that bad about them self , anyway I'm going to stop blabbering just wanted to try and make someone feel better :)

  • Tim
    Lv 7
    4 years ago

    Join a church group.

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