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I had a toxic gf and I'm still so resentful 6 mos later....?
broke up with my girlfriend in July. We dated for one year. I was 22 and it was my first serious relationship. I did everything for her. I was so nice and she even called me an angel. I was always there for her. She treated me okay but it got worse and worse. It seemed like the nicer I was the more disrespectful she became. I was a very good boyfriend and trust me I m not inflating it at all. Anything I did was never enough and she was selfish, immature, and it felt like babysitting having to constantly reassure her and explain myself. I would write her a goodnight text like two paragraphs of sweet things and sometimes she'd say " that's it?..". 6 months later and I am thankful to be rid of her and have clarity about the situation. I just can t believe I let her walk all over me. So how do I let go of the hatred and move on with my ******* lifeI
3 Answers
- DeeLv 74 years agoFavorite Answer
Try to see the overall picture and let it go. Realize that there are people so beyond redemption you aren't skilled enough to fix them. You stated all the good you did and she didn't appreciate it? I guarantee you this, she does now I'm positive of that. And when she sees how you were the best guy she could ask for, she'll come to regret her behavior. See how it works? All the heartache will be on her, not you. So, now that you clearly see how much time you wasted on her, let go. No one is worth the aggravation they cause, unless it's your own child and even at that. Now put the witch out of your head completely. Good luck
- Anonymous4 years ago
I know the feeling when I read this I felt like I was looking at what my ex did to me. Don't worry it gets better. Learn to forget her focus on yourself and be happy you didn't end up with someone who was rude and nasty. Someone else will come along and you remember what this felt like. Just make sure the next girlfriend isn't like this one. Make sure she is kind, caring, respectful and also loving right back to you as much as you are to them. Remember love is a two way street not like what you described here. I feel like she was only thinking of herself.
- whyskyhighLv 74 years ago
She treated me okay
BUT u love to hurt her daily
why are u rude and cold as ice
STOP HITTING HER
or she must flee to china
