Why would she do this?

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I'm a 23 year old guy and my girlfriend is 21. She is the sweetest girl I have ever met. The thing is, is a really religious and is pretty innocent. One day we were talking and she asked me if I looked at porn and I said "no, but I do masturbate." She didn't have a problem with me masturbating, but she felt like porn was cheating. The next day she was over, we were making out and she unzipped & pulled down my pants. She proceeded to give me a ********. I asked her why she was doing it. She said that she knows that sex is an important part of a relationship, and she wants to be the one to give me my pleasure. Almost every time she comes over now, she tries to give me a BJ, hand job, hump me, or give me some kind of sexual pleasure of some type before she leaves. She is waiting on marriage for sex, but thinks I deserve to get my pleasure from a woman. What do you think about this? Why would she do this?

Tepee · Accepted Answer

I think she explained her reasons quite well.   She understands that intimacy is important for a successful relationship.   I hope she allows you to reciprocate in some way so you can share those special moments without violating her ultimate wishes.   She is a very considerate girlfriend.

shroud · Answer

I would have married her by now 
she believes a woman should keep her man happy - for you life is good

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like she's getting bored with being religious.

Anonymous · Answer

She probably feels bad that you have to look at porn when you have a girlfriend so she's trying to do something for you

Ryan · Answer

I have to ask...are you being serious?

You are asking why a girl you're in a relationship is being intimate with you? Why do you find that strange?

She is religious, and doesn't want to have real sex until you get married, right? So what is so wrong with her trying to pleasure you?

Are you uncomfortable with this or something? Because it sounds like she is just trying to tend to the needs of her boyfriend, so you don't have to resort to masturbating. What is the confusion here?

BuzzyBee · Answer

You know there are sites for this sort of fiction. If it isn't fiction, how boring.

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