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How do I move on from a girl?

There is this girl I like, I have asked questions about her previously and have tried to do what the answers have told me. Me and her are really good friends but she started going out with a new guy really recently and she has been telling me everything about it. I feel depressed and I cant stop thinking about it too much. Please help me

Update:

From everything she has told me about this guy, he has a similar personality as me (like and do the same things in front of her and normally) but he is a lot taller than the two of us and is a lot more attractive. He also has a lot of experience in pain because apparently all of his previous girlfriends have either cheated on him or been dishonest (a lot like her story too) and he has other talents such as guitar/singing and sports.

Update 2:

I really like this girl but I have to move on because I can't compete, but I can't because I talk to her all the time.

Update 3:

I really like this girl but I have to move on because I can't compete, but I can't because I talk to her all the time.

6 Answers

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  • 4 years ago

    dood, dont go down without a fight breh, this might just be infatuation, but u won't really know how she feels until u ask her.

  • 4 years ago

    FEAR is a good way to DISTRACT yourself from PAIN and MISERY.

    If talking to the opposite sex scares you,

    then go out and improve on your popularity.

    TWO THINGS WILL HAPPEN:

    1- You will be Nervous while doing this,

    you won't have your EX on your Mind or Heart.

    2- As this gets easier for you, you'll know more Girls that will take the place of your loneliness.

    BUT YOU HAVE TO DO THE WORK!!

    Anything and Everything you want to Change or Improve about

    yourself will require PRACTICE.

    There are many many things school taught you that you (most people)

    will NEVER use in real Life. You probably realize this by now.

    The solution to your problem/dilemma is simple.

    Depending on your personality, it may NOT be EASY, but it's still Simple.

    BUT YOU HAVE TO DO THE WORK!!

    BECOMING POPULAR, BUILDING SELF CONFIDENCE

    both REQUIRE PRACTICE.

    PRACTICE is just a way to LEARN to get better.

    (High School / College / New Town / New Job)

    Most guys, who care WAY TOO MUCH, usually project or

    develop insecurities in themselves.

    This does not Impress or Capture Women's Interest or Attention.

    The key to Breaking the Ice with ANYONE, is in the ability to make People Smile and Enjoy your company.

    Always use Smiles, Humor and Compliments to approach people.

    USE SMILES (to make them relax),

    USE HUMOR (to make them Smile or Laugh),

    USE COMPLIMENTS (to make them feel good about themselves

    when they are around you)

    Wouldn't you want to be around someone

    that made you feel good about yourself?

    What someone else Feels, Thinks or Wants IS NEVER your concern.

    If YOU like someone, YOUR HEART is what matters.

    Your ONLY job/goal is to get by her side. In her company.

    Once there, make her Smile, Laugh and Feel good about herself

    with Compliments.

    Wouldn’t you like being around someone that did that for you??

    This is how you win over people. Be Likable and Be Fun.

    Make this your personality and people will look for/want to be around you.

    PRACTICE this over and over. It's only scary the first 3 or 4 times.

    Be nice and conversational to ALL the girls. Even plain girls have feelings and attractive friends, neighbors or cousins.

    Be Respectful, you'll be remembered better.

    Develop Popularity And The Girl You Are Looking For

    Will Probably Find You.

    If you don't start PRACTICING this now, you will lose out on many other opportunities (girls) in the future. The Players call it "Having Game."

    REMEMBER--Handsome, Beautiful or Butt Ugly

    has "NOTHING" to do with PRACTICE.

    Because it's only practice...

    it doesn't matter if you strike out over and over again.

    Also, if you get rejected 100,000 times.

    There is still a BILLION girls you haven't met... YET!!!!!

    and Vice Versa, girls that haven't met You... YET!!!!!

    CONFIDENCE is not about Succeeding. It's about NOT BEING AFRAID,

    to Step Up, whether you get Accepted or Rejected.

    After you get Accepted or Rejected, YOU WILL "Quit"

    Torturing yourself with Worry and Curiosity.

  • 4 years ago

    I know it's hard it's up to you but you might just want to cut her out of your life. It will get rid of the constant reminder of the pain you feel

  • 4 years ago

    Go to her, and tell her that you like her. A lot of guys end up, as they call it "friendzoned", but it's their fault sometimes, because they never approach the girl and tell her what he feels. If she says no, don't just break all ties with her. You may find yourself forgeting about her, and maybe even you meet another girl you start liking. It's not impossible to be friends with a girl you like, trust me I did stay friends with a girl I liked, and I certainly did not regret it.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    Find another girl. You creep.

  • 4 years ago

    Move on by telling her the truth: "I like you, and it kills me that you're with someone else, so I can't stay in this friendship anymore, but it's been great knowing you, and I will remember you fondly. Good-bye."

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