Bf confessed to cheating?

The fact you're questioning whether you should forgive him says a lot.

To me this says that this is not his usual behavior and you're putting this down to a 1 time thing... potentially it could be worse. If he does this again after you've forgiven him you know what he's like and you can finally put your heart at ease knowing that he wasn't worthy of you. However if you choose to finish things now and you truly do love him then it's going to hurt more than him cheating on you.

Personally I would forgive him, if he didn't feel sorry about his actions he wouldn't have told you and gave you enough detail to be mad about the whole thing.

I think right now you need to make it clear to him that you won't tolerate this again and if he does cheat again you're out of his life and will have nothing to do with him. You can't let him take advantage of you by repeating this action so he needs to know for sure that you won't forgive him a 2nd time.

no

I'd keep my eye on this ********.

Put him on probation. He may have just confessed to the one he was worried you were going to find out about.

Drinking problem?

Lighten up! What is a BJ off a stranger? Nothing but ten minutes of sucking and coming

Then they part no attachment or guilt

Get over it

Cheat also then dump him.

Yes, I think, only this time.

Being drunk isn't an excuse, but it is a major cause of his cheating behavior. Which means that he might do it again, if he gets drunk again.

I think you can believe his promise not to do it again, if he promises not to get drunk again, and you can believe this promise too.

it was a f ucking *******. Stfu and keep sucking his di.ck

You already gave him a chance to respect you

he blew it

take him back, all you are saying is, yeah its fine to cheat on me and hurt me, and make me look foolish, i will still take you back

being drunk isnt an excuse, is he going to stop going clubbing with his friends? Or will you just sit at home like a sap wondering if he is cheating on you. Again?

Yes