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Relationship advice needed?
I stopped talking to this guy due to fear of being hurt, lied to and cheated on again. It's hard for me to trust but he was a good man. The only things I didn't like was he was way older than me ( but didn't act or look his exact age) he would catch an attitude sometimes but said that's just how he talk. Well i had family issues so I just stopped answering his calls then I just didn't wanna face what he had to say. When i decided I would answer the next time he called, he hasn't. I think about him a lot . I want to contact him but not sure if I should just leave him alone. It's been about two months. I just want advice. Please don't be rude I've been going through other things not mentioned here so please just give good advice.
3 Answers
- ?Lv 64 years ago
So are u saying he wasn't the one who hurt , lied and cheated on you?
Was that from a different guy, and you just have trouble trusting again ?
If the Cheater isn't the same guy in this post.
I think it's ok if you contact him saying your sorry for how things turned out, and that your sorry u stopped answering his calls and ghosted him. And why.
Yes he's not contacting you, you've shown him you don't want to be bothered so a man is going to give up. Men have egos too and need to feel needed.
- 4 years ago
I know how you feel I was in your boat once. You must of given him what he already wanted which is just sex to him. If you hadn't given that up, he may still be speaking to you because some guys are assholes. He is not worth it he is just a tool. For you to be this obsessed it must be well and truely his looks or his sexual performance. My advice to you is get over it there are so many other guys out there you don't need some moron who won't give you time or day. You are the only one making the effort, he isn't trying for a reason. He seems done with you. Have more respect you are capable of so much more. If he cheated once he will cheat twice.
- ?Lv 74 years ago
"Relationship advice"?
What "relationship"? You threw that away.
You've lost this one.
Now it's time to work on yourself. Get counselling for your trust issues.
If you don't confront this problem, you will never be happy whoever you're with, and you will sabotage every future relationship you ever have.