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Should I give her a hard time about this?
My fiancee ( getting married in a month ) had a surprise bridal shower at work. One of the women at her work allegedly bought her 2 pieces of lingerie. She works in a mostly male environment.
If the tables were turned around and I told her that my work had a surprise wedding shower for me, and my male coworker bought me silk underwear and a bottle of lube or something, she wouldn't believe it was a man and would give me the third degree.
Tired of the double standards, I should badger her the way she does me I think.
Thoughts?
3 Answers
- Anonymous4 years agoFavorite Answer
Women gift lingerie at bridal showers for the bride to be, its normal. It a girl thing, she's not the only one trust me :) I highly doubt a male got it for her. Congrats btw :)
- sillywhisperLv 64 years ago
Lingerie is a common and nice bridal shower gift. Some showers are a bit raunchy with joke gifts like edible panties, flavored lubricants (including alcohol), and even vibrators. The lingerie was undoubtedly a gift from a female co-worker and a thoughtful one at that.
I don't know why you are having such a hard time with trusting your fiancee. I see romantic jealousy in your question. That is a major problem for a long term relationship. You should call off the wedding and get your butt into counseling. Sorry.
- Anonymous4 years ago
No you should not badger her, lol Neither she you. If you guys cannot trust each other to tell the truth about bridal shower and wedding gifts then why are you getting married.
My husband is bisexual anyone buying him underwear and lube could be flirting with him, but it could also be from a friend. My husband is allowed to try and make friends and I trust him to set the people flirting straight. What he does not have to do is throw away some silly gift, (that we can also use too) cos I trust him to tell me who's it from and that he will set the person straight first chance he gets or has already if they have a thing for him.
You guys should not get married. No point in a relationship that's not based in trust.
Also if your gf is doping something wrong, like badgering you, the right response to that is not to do the same back. It's to get her therapy.
