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Should I forgive my cheating bf?
My bf and I have been going out for about a year. He went to the club one night with his friends, got drunk and got a bj from another girl. He confessed to me a few days later saying how sorry he was and he even told me that being drunk isn't an excuse for cheating. He knows what he did was wrong and didn't try to excuse his behaviour. Should I forgive him and give him a second chance?
7 Answers
- Pick ThisLv 74 years agoFavorite Answer
I think it depends on the context, as in, how good is your relationship with him otherwise? Also, did he tell you any plan for preventing the same thing from happening again in the future?
- ?Lv 74 years ago
Based on my experience, once a cheater always a cheater. I've been with guys who cheated on me and once that happened, I couldn't trust them at all. And I confess, I did cheat on a guy as well and he dumped me as he couldn't trust me either....fair enough.
Relationships are built on trust and if there isn't that foundation, then forget it....not gonna work. Lucky for me I'm happily married to a great guy with no intention of cheating. My only fault is that I tend to flirt a bit too much but do try my best to stop....it's just the way I'm wired.
- EdwardLv 64 years ago
No. He has a drinking problem. Next time it will be sex and he will bring home HIV to you.
- Anonymous4 years ago
he's lying he f*uck all the whores every friday
- ?Lv 74 years ago
Do not take him back. Once a cheater, always a cheater. It should only take one, and only ONE, instance of cheating, to dump him. You need to leave him. No ifs or buts about it. If I had a boyfriend and he cheated on me, I would never ever forgive him or talk to him ever again. He can tell me how sorry he is and promise to not do it again, but it will fall on deaf ears. He can cry as many tears as he likes, but I will turn a blind eye and brush him off. That's a PROMISE.
