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Why are people picky when it comes to finding a partner?

It seems now it's harder to find a relationship because of people that have very high standards of the ideal partner they want. I'm a 27 year old male that's singie, no kids, financially stable and a house but it's hard for me to find a girlfriend because a lot of women are picky. Should I look for love in another country?

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  • 4 years ago

    I believe that this seems to be a problem nowadays with men and with women. The "maybe there is something better out there" syndrome. There is someone out there for you though. Be patient and make sure you are not doing anything to turn them off. Give yourself a review. Do I talk too much about myself? Do I seem interested in what she has to say? Am I polite? cheerful? etc. etc. Sometimes our friends can even be honest with us and tell us about little things we do that may be annoying or a put off. Good luck to you.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    4 years ago

    You do realize mabe they arnt picky.

    Mabe they dont like you.

    You can have all the money.

    Be handsom.

    Be a cool dude.

    It doesnt mean someone will be attracted to you.

  • 4 years ago

    Everyone is a bit picky when finding a person to spend an intimate part of our lives with to some extent because we want someone tailored to our needs in a way.

    If you really feel comfortable with it, give dating outside your home country a go but please be wary of people who can use you for your money or for a way to live in a richer country.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    People, especially women, should have high standards and should be picky about who they want to get involved in. It's just like buying a car or a house; you don't just want any kind; you want to carefully pick. Depending on certain countries, some women may be easier to pick up. If you want to exit the country and find love, go for it. Just seems a bit exaggerated.

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