How to get my girl back after going on and off?

you don't

Couldn't of said it any better Dan.

In my honest opinion dude.

I think perhaps you should move on.

If its been a consistent issue and you've been on and off due to it, its best to accept its just not meant to be.

Do what you gotta do, move on and find another women, one you won't have constant headaches and bickers with.

Best wishes,

Dan.

More info- So me and this girl have been on and off for about 6 months and she just ended it again for the third time saying we should just be friends but just the day before she ended it she said that she loved me but also that same day talks about a bunch of other guys she is hitting up and sending naked pictures with I always thought that she is making it up to make me jealous but I don’t know and also just a few weeks ago to she told my friend that she doesn’t want to hurt me and that she really cares about me but she seems to purposefully hurt me every day she really confuses me and I don’t know what to do to get her back and to keep her and to know exactly what she wants I need some advice thanks