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Mixed feeling about 1 year relationship and what to do?
I care about this girl alot and I really have enjoyed the time we have spent so far. She has been single since her sophomore year of college, she is 25, i am 24. I am her first boyfriend since. So she definitely has had her time messing around while single. She is my fourth and i am her 15th or even 18th i am not sure. She used to just ghost people left and right because they were too clingly or annoying apparently so i feel like i mustve had a solid impact to make her want to date again. It kind of bothers me shes been around but im wondering if thats just because i havent had my chance to “get out there” and **** around a bit. Shes never done anything wrong and its been an awesome relationship....my question is, is what i am feeling normal or am i just being toi jealous...i find myself wondering about her past and my future.
3 Answers
- Anonymous3 years ago
Why does it bother you though? You are basically same age, she chose to play the field for a bit, you chose longer relationships.Both are valid choices. You had sex a thousand times with 5 women she had sex a thousand times with 18 men...So?
Your tormenting yourself and bringing your quality of life for no good reason.
I'm 18 years older than my partner and have had more lovers than he has. I was 18 when he was baby, So what? We are two consenting adults in love, two equals.
If you gf is a good gf now, that is all that matters. Talk to her about it in humorous way, let her reassure you.
A little humour goes a long way.
- JLv 73 years ago
yes what you are feeling is normal, but you shouldn't pay attention to whatever she did before you, that is not your business trust me you bring that topic and she will drop you so fast and furious brother, you have to be ok with the situation a good looking girl will have a lot of guys hitting on her and plenty of dates in the past, remember at the end of the day girls do the chose believed or not, you are also correct when you said that you most have something special for her to choose you and stick with you. Stop over thinking
- ez2tock2Lv 73 years ago
Your HEART will ALWAYS be Honest with you. Your Mind can take you in many many many directions. Most people learn VALUE after they experience REGRET.
Go with your Heart instead of your Head. in the future, your Heart may change (or hers).
in any case... you have an Experience.
In order to LOSE at ANYTHING... First you HAVE TOO "TRY" to WIN.
If you don't try, you won't be a Winner or a Loser...
which is just another way of saying... YOU'RE NOTHING.
