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what should I do about my boyfriend?
well I moved in with him without knowing him that much and now I realized that we don't have much in common and I don't really have the confidence to blow him everyday I get too scared to initiate it with himbut he only wants that from me. we get along we like eachother but we also have a lot that's different about us its not like how Imagined I imagined we would have sex all the time but in reality we have sex once a week and the rest of the week blow him and im not even good at it and we don't have similar interests and I still have to pay rent. ill give it a few more months just for the hell of it and then i will probably leave because hes originally from califormia hes probably gonna have to go back at some point. he has manner and hes nice, but he says that he thinks I have the mentality of a teenager he says I don't have good coping mechanisms and he says that since I don't have a good job statistics show that people usually marry in their financial bracket. sometimes he is just a little bit "too" honest with me it causes me to be stand off ish with him like I am scared to reveal too much in front of him because I think hes gonna judge me for it and I don't feel as comfortable as I should feel in a relationship.
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- Anonymous3 years agoFavorite Answer
Some girls value comfort, and some girls value reality. Some girls don’t wanna be “comfortable” 100% of the time though, some girls would prefer honesty even if sometimes it’s stressful to hear. Whereas other girls would rather be lied to than hear something that stings.
Some girls want their boyfriends to lie to them and tell them exactly what they want to hear, and some girls appreciate a guy being honest, and are glad to date a guy who’s enough of a man to tell it like it is. Because those women are strong and intelligent and appreciate facts and truth, as it helps them better make good informed decisions in their lives which leads to more success.
If you’re the first group, and just want a guy to tell you what you wanna hear, then you have no place being with a man who’s honest, and he should find a girl who wants honesty and you should find a guy who will lie to you.
- Anonymous3 years ago
Why are you wasting your time?