Were Mrs Camilla Parker-Bowles and the late Queen Mum close friends?

Oh no, they never met, the queen mother did not approve of adultery.

they were Family the Queen Mother Loved her we have we have Cammila Parker BOWLES

and Nee Elizabeth Bowles-Lyons

No.

Drinking and smoking buddies. Often seen together in Knightsbridge wine bars.

Definitely not. The Queen Mother thought Camilla was a “wicked” adulteress. Charles famously had to wait until after the Queen Mother’s death to make public his affair with Camilla, the wife of Andrew Parker Bowles.

No, the Queen Mother's close friend was a chap named "Gordon's" strange name I know but, I didn't choose it.

The Queen Mother did not do close friendships.

Stupid question, it’s well known that Charles had to wait until after his grandmothers death before Camilla even had a chance to become part of the family because of her (TheQueen Mother’s) attitude toward her (Camilla)

I doubt it

They used to have Ladies Gin Afternoons at Buckingham Palace with the ladies in waiting and a male stripper.