what should I do in this situation?

Both lover are not same. May be one is love with you very much and other one is not love you . You need to judge their loves and then decide.

don't think about it just quick do you want to be with? Who ever came to mind first is probably the one you want to choose

Just like your other fantasies, you discuss this situation with your Psychiatrist.

Maybe you don't understand what "arranged marriage" means.

Tell the truth and own up to what you did. After that don't choose either until you figure out what you want or need. But just know that since you cheated with the guard you might always worry now that he will cheat on you with someone else. You guys destroyed the trust before there was even a relationship to begin with.

Tell to the guard that it is over .

Choose neither until you get yourself sorted out.

You will commit to a relationship with your lover and trade your current life for one with him .

You will end the affair in time possibly to restore your life as it was.The greatest likelihood is your affair will be discovered.

No matter how careful or cautious, ultimately you or your lover will make a mistake. A forgotten text, a mislaid note, a suspicious sighting of the two of you together, or a thousand other things can happen.

When that occurs, you will have no control over what happens next. There is great value in living consistently with your beliefs and values. It isn’t always easy—actually, it may at times be quite difficult—but the consequences make it worthwhile.If you end the affair now, you may well have a chance to save your marriage or current relationship. Actually, not to save it but to make it better. If it were everything that it should be, you likely would not have entered the affair. However, all that can be overcome and you can build a relationship that will be better than you ever imagined.

Just tell the truth and end it with the security guard. He is just after sex and he is not in love with you.

If your marriage is arranged, it would be best to comply. You’re smart in realizing it’s immoral to cheat. If the security guard knows you’re taken and still wants to engage with you, he’s no one to be concerned with. You’ll realize what’s true in time.

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