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Why am I not good enough?

I have a good looking nose. My eyes aren't perfect but they're pretty. My lips are just right.. but still no one likes me in school. Is it that I'm annoying? Is it my goofy smile? I don't understand why nobody wants to be my friend.. Do you think there is a reason? Or should I just not care

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  • 2 years ago

    I don't have a single friend I picked because of their nose or eyes or lips. My friends are people I easily laugh with, can have varied conversations with about broad topic ranges, I trust with myself, and who's company I enjoy. Lips, nose, eyes just don't rank up there on my list of what makes for an interesting friend.

  • SW-6
    Lv 6
    2 years ago

    You are fine honey. There is not a thing wrong with you, except you per se'. You are young and got a long life ahead of you filled with this same "shunning" you are concerned with now. So saying, you better figure out now how to deal with it. My first suggestion is to know who you are, embrace it and roll with it. I for example am a little short, have big feet, walk with a limp and one eye is closed tighter than the other. You know what else? I know better than to tease and mock, I have a good heart, I am caring and compassionate, best of all - I ROCK! My appearance and character is prime bait for bullying, exclusion, etc. I don't care - I know who I am, I am ok with it, I ROCK, and I am a much better person than those who would mock me or anyone else. So there. Kiss my behind.

    YOU get there asap and you can ignore the ignorant, be ok with any wait for good people to come into your life, and be strong confident and secure enough to tell the haters where to go and how to get there. Life is too short to spend any of it on garbage. You give out noting but the good and wonderful that is you (remember- you ROCK!) sit back and let the love, respect and good come to you. It will. Trust me. :)

    Source(s): *AND we are kind of cute also. :)
  • 2 years ago

    it would be a guess

  • 2 years ago

    First, you are good enough. You always have been, you always will be. Your value comes from existing not anything you do or don't do. Your value is not earned. It's admirable to assess your stengths and flaws, and to consider improving yourself, but only on the foundation of solid, unchanging self-love. If you don't think you're amazing, why would anyone else? Be kind to others, involve yourself in your passions (books, sports, etc) and join clubs or groups with shared interests. Create for yourself an awesome life. Friends worthy of your time and energy will be attracted to your awesome life.

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