I cant get my super out early!!?

Im a samoan born,nz citizen living in melb.Fallen on hard times and tried too get early super release under"hardship"or"compassionate grounds"

Was told I needed too be getting centrelink payments and a letter from them stating so.Problem is?Im not eligible for a benefit due too not being an aust citizen.Explained that too super company but was told thats just the law.If I returned back too nz same applies there.Dont want too go back.Other option is move back too the islands and give passport back too prove im not coming back too nz or aust.Wont do that either.Anyone else been through what im going through right now? Any ideas?thanks.