Are my parents being fair?

Last night I was making dinner, and while I was cooking I decided I wanted to listen to some metal music. All of a sudden my dad comes home and tells me to turn it off. I tell him that I’m making dinner and that I should get to choose the music & if my family has a problem with it. I won’t make dinner. my dad responds with, “you won’t be eating here If you don’t make dinner.”

I’m upset I& decide I’m going to play a pop song that has some explicit words, well my dad goes ballistic. I tell him that he stressed me out and that because if that dinner is ruined. He then starts freaking out and corners me against a wall I tell him to eff off he threatens to punch me, in which I kicked him in self defense. I end up leaving the house eventually I come back home.

My dad and stepmom are in the kitchen and they say they want to talk. My stepmom goes on about how she doesn’ t tolerate violence and that it was wrong for me to kick my dad because that shows children bad things. She has a 7 year old daughter. She then tells me that she doesn’t want any songs with explicit lyrics being played. Which is understandable. She proceeds to tell me that she never wants to hear any metal song in the house ever again. I ask her why since a lot of metal songs don’t have explicit lyrics .. She responds with its angry music and it’s not healthy for little children to be listening to it, and that metal music is disrespectful.

Do you guys think my family is being fair? . Opinions?