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Any advice you can give to a guy who is going out on a date with a girl for the first time?

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  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    1) As always make sure you pray to God for you and your date to be safe everywhere you both go on your date

    2) Don't make it a habit only talking about yourself

    3) If you interested in her then at some point on the date ask her what she wants in a relationship and I only say this because if you are trying to make her girlfriend you need to know if she is all about herself or if she wants a fair relationship

    4) Try as much as possible to not talk about any of your past girlfriends remember your goal is to have your date enjoy herself and not sharing bad experiences from your past relationships

  • 2 years ago

    Compliments, show her your interested in her so don't talk about yourself unless she asks you a question. And don't be afraid to show her the real you, worst that could happen is her to turn around and say no and then you move on. Just be true to you, find things you have in common and just have a laugh.

  • K
    Lv 6
    2 years ago

    Keep your hands to yourself. What do I mean by this? Respect her, always. If you're just meeting this girl for the first time or you're friends and hug often, give her a hug hello. You can hug her goodbye, too, but if you're going to kiss her goodbye, make sure you ask if it's okay first rather than just going for it. That can sometimes make a girl feel uncomfortable. Dress nicely. I don't mean wear a suit or tux or anything, but don't dress in baggy jeans and a t-shirt either. Show her you care about your appearance and the date itself. Wear a polo shirt if you have one and jeans that fit. Tell her she looks beautiful. Take her somewhere to eat. Movies are an okay idea for a first date, but you'll want to do something that allows you to be able to talk to and get to know each other. Talk to her about your hobbies, your family. Don't talk too much about yourself though, ask her questions about herself. Make sure to include her in the conversation.

  • Teva
    Lv 5
    2 years ago

    Don't go anywhere near the bum hole.

  • 2 years ago

    NEVER take a girl to a movie on a 1st date. The idea for Dating is to find out if there is anything between two people. Attraction is based on looks, but personality will let you know if you are worth each other's while. Just TALK. Get to know each other.

    At the movies you have to be quiet. TOTALLY A BAD CHOICE.

    Dinner is going cost you $$$$$, if your personalities suck for each other, you'll WASTE your money.

    She is not going to be impress with what you feed her or how Broke you became.

    Spend Time with HER--NOT Money on HER. You can get to know each other and have fun, walking, riding bikes, throwing a frisbee, playing card games, even studying math or writing a letter back n forth to each other and NOT use words during your time together.

    A DATE is NOT about getting dressed up, driving, spending money or even kissing at the end of the date.

    A Date is JUST SPENDING TIME getting to meet (know) each other.

    If in the future, you remember your time together… that's because it was a date (if it was Good or Bad, it's still a date). When you get together again, its a second date even if you still don't drive or spend a penny.

    You'll remember it in the future. IT'S A DATE.

    Also… YOU ARE THE DATE. What you do, Where you go, what happens IS JUST ACTIVITY.

    YOU are who she would want to see again… NOT what you do next time.

    You NEVER have to spend a penny to have a date. Money is for the Event, NOT a good impression. Dating is an introduction to a relationship. If a DATE is accepted, it is a time for two people to spend time getting to know each other. It IS NOT a romantic event with promises or commitments.

    It's to find out if there is compatibility or personal interest between the two.

    It doesn't matter if a guy ask a girl or a girl ask a guy out on a date.

    As for conversations topics, The only thing that really matters is that she SMILED and enjoyed herself with your company. Compliment her on something you like about her. Smile at her, she will smile back automatically (this should be VERY easy for you, because you are

    HAPPY TO BE WITH HER).

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    dont try to make this some serious business meeting with ur boss or something like just do what ud normally do like ur going out with friends or something just keep it interesting and keep urselves busy and it should all click into place on its own.

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