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How do I communicate my feelings to my girlfriend?

So I have a problem with the relationship and I want to talk to her about it so i can get over it but whenever I tell her I want to talk about something serious she always tells me to stop making drama and kind of dismisses it, and if I persist she gets pissed at me, how can I have a proper talk with her without her making me seem like a dick, thanks in advance

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  • 2 years ago
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    It seems you have multiple problems with your relationship. First, the one you are trying to talk with her about and which she dismisses as unimportant. RED FLAG: Its important to you, she is disrespecting you by dismissing it. And second, she gets upset with you when you want to have a civil, mature discussion about something. RED FLAG: If it's not important to her, she gets mad at you. Again, she disrespects your needs and only values her own.

    At this point, as you've tried to talk you may want to think about breaking up. To have a successful relationship you should not have to beg and plead with your partner to talk. It should be something you do on and ongoing basis as it necessary to communicate.

    You are not a dick, she is.

  • 2 years ago

    She sounds like she doesnt know how to manage a relationship. My ex was like that.

  • Alan H
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    If she does not wish to communicate....move on

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