I love a woman that was in a abusive relationship mental and physical.?

Time and patience. A lot of reassurance, it can get really annoying so, again - time. Lol Communication, just be there for her when she needs you, give her space when she asks for it, always remember that actions are louder than words, Message her first, make her feel good about herself, tell her she is pretty... if it bothers her, slow it down a bit but don't stop telling her - at least every once in awhile. Let her talk about her problems to you, don't bug her about it. Eventually she will trust you and open up to you, if you both are really serious about each other. I hope this helps & good luck! :)