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ray asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 2 years ago

My sister thinks I am causing problems why can't she see it is partner that is irresponsible?

So my sister is dating a woman I don't like her. She does not like being told what to do. I don't like gay people. My sister and I weren't talking but now we are. But her partner doesn't appreciate me standing over her telling how to mow the grass how to watch the 9 year old child.

The partner is too fat to be sliding in the pool. My niece got a bloody nose and a scratch on her elbow from playing on the slide in the pool while I was yelling at her partner about how to watch her.

My sister asked me to leave and was mad at me not the partner because she said I stir **** up. The partner thinks I am an bossy asshole and does not want to talk to me about what she did wrong. She thinks I made my niece nervous by yelling at her.

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  • Ocimom
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    Just keep away from her. Take your niece out from time to time for the day and do fun things with her, but leave your sister and partner alone.

  • Pearl
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    just stay away from her as much as possible

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    you will need to cut your sister completely out of your life and never talk to her or her fat lesbian girlfriend again. why would you even want anything to do with that pair of lesbians, sister or not?

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    you have a crush on Pearl Lederman I have to tell her

  • Jerry
    Lv 6
    2 years ago

    First of all, who your sister decides to date is NONE of your business; neither is how she raises her daughter. What do you think gives you the right to tell anyone else how and what to do with their lives?!

    So, her partner is fat. Maybe your sister likes fat people... What kind of a control freak are you to tell an adult how to mow the grass? I think your sister and her partner have your number, pal; and I agree with their assessment... Mind your own damn business.

  • lj1
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    This is a great question. If only there were an equally great term to describe it. Oh, wait. There is one:

    https://youtu.be/VaupF7v99BM

  • ?
    Lv 4
    2 years ago

    Is this some sort of troll? Because if it isn't then you have the self-awareness of a rock.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    Your sister didn't appreciate you yelling at her partner. Would you?!

  • 2 years ago

    So you own your sister do you.....and her child too? Nobody else can have a say in how she brings up her own child.....including your sister herself because YOU know best. I'm assuming you are the elder sibling and you have been told as a child to look after your sister. Sounds like you have carried this instruction on into adulthood and to the Nth degree too. Time to back off and let your sister run her own life the way SHE wants. You don't like her partner? Tough. You don't have to live with that partner. Your sister will eventually curtail your visits to her home if each time you go there it ends up in some sort of slanging match with her partner. Sounds like you are REALLY BOSSY. Step back and have a proper relationship with your sister - a loving one - not one where you are her jailer.

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    You do sound like a troublemaker

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