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Anonymous asked in Dining OutGermanyDuisburg · 2 years ago

My girlfriend sleeps on me during night and I'm not being able to move when I want to sleep and she said I have to deal with it?

I do love my girlfriend and she's perfect in everything but during sleep it's really uncomfortable for me like she's sleeping on top of me so I'm not being able to move nor switch portions so I'm stuck at same position which making me hard for me to fall asleep and I talked to her about it but she instead gets mad and says she wants to use me as pillow and I have to deal with me. I'm just so sad she talked to me this way. What should I do?

Update:

I left her

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  • 4 months ago

    Get a California King size bed. She has a lot of nerve thinking she can use you as her pillow.  If she can't stop you need to lose her.  She's being ridiculously selfish.

  • 2 years ago

    grow a pair or deal with it...

  • 2 years ago

    Have sex with her when she is on top of you, see if that helps

  • 2 years ago

    Eat a bowl of beans with a significant amount of garlic and onions. So your bad gas and bad breath will make her sleep further away from you. Good luck.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    Anytime another person hurts you - and interfering with your sleep IS hurting you - if that person shows no remorse and does not change their behavior... it is abuse.

    If you live together, I would sleep on the couch or - seriously - get twin beds. If not, and this is your home, I would invite her to go to her own home. If this is her home, GO HOME.

    How would she act? - what would she say? - if the situation was reversed?

  • GEEGEE
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    Tell it you'll deal with by sleeping in a different bed lol.

  • 2 years ago

     yahoo chose this to be in the dining out section, you'll have to deal with that too.

  • 2 years ago

    First of all I don't think this is a problem and no one else can solve it if it is really a problem.

    My only advise is to behave like a man and not like a pillow.

  • 2 years ago

    Break up dude

    Or embrace it

  • ?
    Lv 6
    2 years ago

    You can move. Move all you want, or need to. She’ll have to deal with it. That’s fair.

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