Why don't people get I am just trying to help them do things the right way ?

am helping out a kid's party. It is 50 but feels like 55or 60 degrees and they are playing outside with just light jackets or hoodies on. It is too cold to be playing outside. They should be indoors. . He also doesn't want me waking up his newborn. She is sleeping in a weird position. I want to wake her up and put her in the right sleeping position.

I also don't think they should be eating donuts and cider. They are not healthy. I was also worried they were going to kill themselves carving pumpkins. The one mom said she was worried too but the carving thing were really not that sharp. Another mom was like sucks when you aren't king of everything huh?

Then I started worrying the pumpkins were not going to look professional and they should let me do all the work. So I start screaming and my buddy asked me to leave because I am not helping and am being a jerk.. I also pissed off a woman at the store by taking ice cream out of her buggy because she is too fat. I don't get it. I have to be in charge or things don't work out. Why don't people understand that?